It’s OK to Say No

Part of the ‘Let’s Talk…’ series, ‘It’s OK to Say No’ is a well considered, reassuring book which introduces children to the idea of consent and personal boundaries.

Starting with an explanation of what ‘consent’ means the book then explores a whole range of situations and the emotions which children might feel when in a similar position. It begins with feeling comfortable/ uncomfortable before moving on to giving, and asking for, consent. Appealing, colourful illustrations and simple, clear sections of text make the book accessible to a wide reading audience. The book also makes the point that there is a difference between feeling uncomfortable about something and just not wanting to do it, giving clear examples of when an adult might expect something to be done like teeth cleaning or tidying up.

Other considerations like being uncomfortable/ comfortable with different things, changing our minds are also explored before the book moves onto what people usually keep ‘private’ and why touch needs consent. This is all very carefully and thoughtfully handled, presented in age appropriate language and focusing on everyday situations and concluding with step-by-step advice on how to say ‘no’ and who to turn to for help if needed. It is perfect for starting conversations with even the youngest children about consent and respect for their own, and others, boundaries.

Additional advice is included at the end of the book for grown-ups, offering further guidance for how to support children develop this sense of respect for themselves and for others. Although pitched at younger children, there is nothing to stop parents, teachers or other adults using the book with mixed aged siblings, friends or classes of older students.

An excellent addition to bookshelves!

A Let’s Talk Book: It’s Ok to Say No

Molly Potter, illustrated by Sarah Jennings

Bloomsbury Education ISBN: 978-1801995382